If this installation is somewhere in the USA or other regulated countries, you are perhaps already aware that there are multiple issues involved (OSHA, state regulatory, and others etc.) in addition to questions related to self-restraint etc. in dealing with existing asbestos cement (AC) water and even some other service AC pipelines. I do not profess to be an expert in these AC issues (other than being aware of some of them!), and if you have not done so I would strongly suggest you carefully read all governing regulations and maybe even seek out some actual experts/authorities etc. for dealing with and/or disturbing etc. this pipe.
However, I can see some of these issues as potential obstacles to the number of "takers" you might get to help you out with merchantable restraint devices to work on this pipe (at least on the list so far this appears to be zero!)
If you don't find same or if it is not possible for some reason to parallel or otherwise replace enough of this piping with some other suitable contemporary piping (for example a suitable restrained length of contemporary piping now listed suitable for carrying potable water, as is apparently being done in many parts of the world), perhaps you could consider e.g. some sort of "external anchorage" of all pressure thrust foci (such as a valve that might be closed with pressure against the closed gate?)involved. What exactly this external anchorage could be may be limited some by the configuration(s) of the actual thrust foci involved, the pressure, available space, soil conditions, constructability, the fragility (with regard to construction support and digging around/under etc.) of the existing AC, and of course the structural/mechanical imagination/experience etc. of the designer.
Perhaps something else that might be considered is sliplining or pipebursting the existing pipe with some length of near the same size or smaller self-restrained line, if this is allowed in the area by regulatory folks and can be tolerated by hydraulic conditions etc. While I have no specific experience with sliplining of AC pipe either, I wonder that if a length of new piping can be slid up inside the end of an existing buried, I suspect maybe long undisturbed, AC pipeline, might that new restrained piping even be somehow grouted in place to aid in the anchorage you seek?