Blanket statements about restricting admixtures for masonry mortar and grout is wrong. Delete that sentence from your specs. You should also review your masonry notes for blanket requirements such as "#5 bars @ 48" o.c." or "place control joints @ 20' o.c." These blanket statements may be in conflict with the project design requirements.
As for admixtures in mortar, the biggest no-no is admixtures containing chlorides since they can cause the metal ties to rust. But some admixtures are fine such as integral water repellents (IWR). Split face block that are used in single wythe applications often contain IWR in the block itself and the IWR is also required to be in the mortar. During cold weather construction you may also want to use accelerators as noted above (but they shouldn't contain calcium chloride). If you want to limit the types of admixtures, and put some performance requirements on them, specify ASTM C1384 Specification for Admixtures in Mortar. They require mortars to maintain certain strengths when using an admixture.
As for grout, you often WANT to use an admixture, especially those that are plasticizers. Since masonry grout has to flow around rebar in very small spaces having a plasticizer is very important. As noted above, most of the grout is delivered in a ready-mix truck so the admixtures are added at the batch plant. For mortar, its best if the additive comes in the bag of cement (think pigment), but some could be added onsite. If you have trained craftworkers they should know what they are doing.
When you look around at industry publications from BIA and NCMA you will see that they generally don't recommend admixtures, but there are circumstances where they are helpful.