My old company had a good number of rural customers, and there limit was 200 amps (the size of the meter. I know this because one of the meter shops had a meter that was melted, glass and all.
That is not to say they may have had a small user rate, for things like cable TV power boosters, but most residences were 200 amps. And that is the same here, but not very rural.
That said, our company has been replacing pad mounted transformers in recent years from 25 kVA to 50 kVA, because of increasing AC and hot tubs. But as now the trend has been grow houses, so the 50 KVA installations has been increasing.
That said, our small substation transformers are sized at about 20 to 25 MVA, so there is a loading issue for the distribution, but not the transmission.