Your design was for a shear tab that has the ablilty to bend. Your problem simple. You have a contractor that wants to erect on a seat angle to make erection faster. That appears to be fine. But if you take into consideration that there will also be a possible problem with a number of other factor then you will also have to agree that is not your design.
The fact that shear tabs are designed to bend in two directions and to twist. That is right shear tabs twist,
so if you lock in the beam at the base of the beam below the shear tab the tab itself can not work as a shear tab always.
If the erector wants to use a erection seat tell him to provide a 1/4 gap between the top of the seat angle and the bottom of the beam and bolt the beam to the seat angle for erection, but remove the bolts and the shim plate after final bolting of the flange.
To cover your self you should notify him also that his engineer will be responsible for the design and safty of the seat angle.
If you approach it this way you do not have to check the project for there extra connections, and you will not be have to wonder any more.