I have two surfaces that do not meet parametrically and I need them to meet somehow even if they aren't tangent. I run into this problem all the time with igs files. I've left an attachment of a screen shot just to give an idea of what I'm looking at.
Yes, that's what he said; set the distance to a larger gap, as long as that is acceptable. If the gap is not acceptable, then you need to replace one (or both) edges with new geometry.
This is solve the majority of problems. However, two other common problems with IGES files tend to be:
1. Missing surface (solution is to build replacement surface), and