First: Take some time to organize your thoughts and ask clear questions. There's a lot of stuff in your post that's irrelevant, and things that aren't even sentences.
Second: There's a key on the right side of your keyboard labeled "Enter" or "Return". Use it occasionally. It will make it easier for people to read your posts.
Now:
Any gas fired appliance needs a given flow rate of gas to deliver its rated output. In round numbers 1 cubic foot of gas contains 1000 BTU. If you have an appliance rated at 6000 BTU/hr you need to feed it 100 cfm. Any less and you get less than the rated output.
Also, for a burner to work correctly it needs a certain minimum pressure at its inlet. Any less and it won't work correctly because gas won't flow through the burner fast enough because there won't be enough pressure to overcome the burner's internal pressure drop.
Pressure drop is one of the things you asked about. Flow and pressure are inexorably linked to each other. If there is no pressure difference between two points then there will not be any flow.
Imagine a drinking straw in a glass of chocolate milk. With the straw just sitting in the glass there is no milk moving through the straw because the pressure on the milk's surface inside the straw and outside the straw are equal.
But suck on the straw and milk starts to flow. Why? Because you've lowered the pressure inside the straw.
Pressure difference = flow.
So one end of the straw is at a high pressure (the end in the glass), and the other end is at a low pressure (the end in your mouth). Where do you think the pressure changes from high to low? Not at any single location. Pressure changes continuously through the length of the straw.
If you are really thirsty and want to drink faster you suck harder. This makes more milk flow. The pressure outside the straw is the same as before, but the pressure at the mouth end is lower, so there is a greater pressure difference.
Larger pressure difference = more flow.
For any given straw, and any given drink there is a direct relationship between how hard you suck and how much liquid flows through the straw.
It works the other way too. If you have a mouthful of water and blow it out through a straw you will find that the harder you blow the faster water flows.
This all happens because of friction between the liquid and the wall of the straw. It takes force to overcome the friction, and the faster water flows the more energy is required to overcome the frictional force. The more liquid you try to move through a pipe the more flow energy is lost to overcoming friction. That energy needs to come from the driving force - the pressure difference. As the liquid moves through the pipe the pressure is continually decreased due to frictional losses. In a pipe with flow the pressure downstream must always be lower than the pressure upstream.
That's pressure drop.
For a given flow a small pipe will have a larger pressure drop than a big pipe.
So imagine that your appliance needs 100 cfm at 1 in wc inlet pressure, and that your utility provides you 5 in wc at the exit of your meter. You need to select your pipe diameter so that you don't have more than 4 inches of pressure drop at 100 cfm. One of your charts will cover this.