Typical Portland cement Type I will give you a grayish color. There are brands of white Portland cement that can provide a lighter shade. Two sizes of aggregates are used in a typical concrete mix. Course aggregate varies in size from 3/8" to 1 1/2". Fine aggregate is typically sand.
For a sculpture, the smaller aggregate would perhaps be preferable to allow better distribution in tight corners.
If the sculpture is intended to be outdoors, and you live in an area with freeze-thaw potential, use air entrainment admixtures.
Reinforcing - depends upon the size, nature, shape of the sculpture. More solid objects, such as a cube, might not need anything. A piece that involves legs, thin extensions, etc. could probably use a single bar (#3 or #4 - 3/8" dia. / 1/2" dia) down the center.
Bonding agents - I don't think - would help. You could consider a fine fiber reinforcing such as Stealth, by Fibermesh, Inc. This would hold the piece together and the smaller size of this particular product would avoid getting "hairy" concrete.
Quantity of concrete and concrete mix design: Ask your local ready mix suppliers for advice on the kinds of aggregate and cement available in your area. They can also provide you with some of their standard mix designs as well. Keep in mind the aggregate, primarily the fines, do affect the color of the final concrete material.