Assuming strip footing and frost wall construction:
1) One option is to incrementally step your footings down adjacent to the basement so that they meet at the same elevation. Another option is to "hang" your house footing foundations from the basement wall in an attempt to reduce excavation and material costs. This is fine so long as the associated loads are dealt with, frost concerns are tended to, and utilities are properly coordinated. This may not work well in your specific situation, however, because your main building front wall is outboard of your basement wall perimeter, creating a cantilever condition.
2) Main building slab on grade settlement adjacent to the basement is always a concern. In high end commercial buildings, they will often install structural, suspended slabs on grade (12-16") spanning from the basement wall back to the limits of foundation wall excavation. A bridge of sorts to span the back fill most likely to settle. On residential projects, I usually see a nominal slab on grade (4") simply either terminated on top of the basement walls or doweled into the side of them. It's cheaper and, frankly, I haven't experienced any difficulty with the detail to date.
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