My question I guess is why is a rain garden or pervious pavement(which is a horrible option for many reasons)any more environmental freindly then a well designed retention pond? A retention pond takes away valuable land mass but if that is not an issue I dont see a reason why not to use one.
I always here people throw around the terms that you want to use LID measures to construct an environementally freindly site and get "credits" for it. Conventional methods like a rentention pond would do the same exact thing. I have yet to see a jurisdiction that gives you "credits" for using LIDS.
First off, a note about terms. You're saying "retention pond," and later you mention that it will infiltrate water. Please realize that many engineers across the country don't have soils that can support that sort of BMP, so when they hear the words "retention pond" they're thinking "detention pond" instead. That's the source of some confusion above. Do note that true "retention" is not at all a common method in most of the country, because very few places have the soils to support it.
Now on to your questions.
In many areas of the country, mine included, classic "retention" ponds are already considered a LID technique! The LEED system gives credit for them, for example. If you can make them work, retention ponds are some of the best BMPs available, so you're setting a high bar for comparison.
Infiltrating through a porous pavement or infiltrating through a retention pond are both about equal, in my opinion. I've seen some studies stating that frequent inundation of the base course of a porous pavement section will actually create an aerobic bioreactor in the base stone, which will help to process and eliminate hydrocarbon pollution. So that would be a bonus over retention ponds, but how much bonus hasn't been studied heavily. There are other studies that say the same thing about rain gardens - that they tend to trap bad stuff in the engineered soil mix and then it gets processed by the bioretention plantings in the swale. Again, it's a nice intuitive conclusion but I'm not sure it's exhaustively supported by research. Research on stormwater BMPs tends to be pretty sketchy, because you don't have a wide enough field of data to draw firm statistical conclusions.
Depending on the site, you may be able to get a lot of cost benefit out of LID techniques, because they focus on reduction in impervious area of the site. Basically you save money on your retention pond. If you make every landscape island a bioretention swale, and add them all up, you need less land for the pond, which increases the development yield on the site. Another LID technique I've commonly seen is rainwater cisterns for landscape irrigation. In drought prone areas this could save you huge amounts of money. Depending on where you are in the country though (riparian vs prior use allocation) cisterns could be flat illegal. East of the Mississippi you're probably fine, West you should check. If you're in the northwest, I doubt this is a concern for you. You might be able to flush your toilets with the cistern water though, and save yourself money over the life of the project that way. (and also pick up some LEED points if you're in to that sort of thing)
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