Concept:
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[li]Almost all mechanical systems, artificial or natural, involve the relative motion of solid components. Wherever two surfaces slide or roll against each other, there will be frictional resistance, and wear will occur. Source: "Springer handbook of Metrology and Testing"[/li]
[li]one time Sealant or lubricant for metal to metal contact is normally temporary solutions (within 2-10 cycle/months/or years if lucky) since it will be extruded inside or outside/"scrapped"/phased out. At the end one will end up with metal to metal contact. It is nice to have in the beginning especially when the "secret component" as you mention will be in storage for some period (lubricant act as rust prevention, etc.). Source: logic and experiences[/li]
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Your question in general:
Is this even possible? Yes, it is possible to achieve metal to metal sealing
1. Is this just a bad sealing arrangement? Yes, most likely or premature wear
2. Is there something I should be putting on the valve before installing it - like a lubricant or sealant? See concept above
Your question is not really clear (aside from the secret design). You mention galling however after re-tightened it works perfect again until some point. Galling is more plastic deformation (if its not wear), and re-tightened again and "works" meaning that it was elastic. This galling phenomenon normally happened between two similar/identical material with same hardness level mating each other.
How to manipulate? make one metal component as interchangeable item, this part normally have lower hardness level. When to change it (to write in your IOM)? suggest to do empirical test/observation on what cycle range it start to fail.
PS: it is not suggestible to put metal to metal contact as primary and only sealing component to the environment
Your name is discreet already, it would be helpful if you can make some analogy of your case. for instance if this is more of Orbit valve kind of type, etc.
I would not buy product that fail before even 100 cycles ever achieved.
Regards,
MR
All valves will last for years, except the ones that were poorly manufactured; are still wrongly operated and or were wrongly selected