Rapt---sure, theory of LT deflection is becoming more robust and inclusive each year, far beyond the reach of codes. Lots of solid resources out there. This is a topic I'm very interested in, have considerable experience with, and I appreciate your comment.
However the precision of LT deflection predictions (my primary experience is with flat plates) varies widely due to the multitude of variables and unknowns---age of concrete, placement, atmosphere and curing, stripping/stressing schedule, etc etc. (Construction sites, not controlled research labs.) Throw in the variability of finish/partition sensitivity (the most likely problem) and it becomes very challenging to channel the best theory and research towards an appropriate standard of care.
I listened to a RAM Concept webinar last year---don't have a link unfortunately---that suggested the statistical correlation of theory-based LT elevated slab deflection to measured values is something like 60% confidence level. They used this as the poll question to illustrate the wide variation in observed performance. This is consistent with my experience of LT deflection problems---some (many) underdesigned flat plates work fine, some (mildly) overdesigned ones can still have issues. It often comes down to the finishes, partition head details, and of course occupant sensitivity.
For RC I have used 4 * initial cracked dead-load (also understand 6*D+L) as a rule-of-thumb. I usually discount the initial self-weight deflection (forms stripped) with the ACI L/480 critical LT deflection limit.
In regard to OP question, either software product will have a guide for LT deflection, and despite the many limitations as rapt has noted (it will be evident as you walk through the guide), I recommend using it as ONE method of evaluation. Compare it to go-bys, run it by peers, etc. For other design needs (reinforcing, punching shear, moment diagrams, etc) all three programs can do this well. Your challenge will be applying it to eccentric-bay layouts that are so common, so I say learn an interface and stick with it. If you have RAM already, you may be able to bargain a deal in the licensing fee.