The way to understand primary stress better is to draw a comparison to secondary stress. Primary stress is not self-limiting and can cause failure or gross distorsion. Examples are membrane stress in shell and bending stress in flat head. Primary stress can be further classified as general or local which have different stress limit. Secondary stress is self-limiting (by stress redistribution) and will not cause failure. Examples are thermal stress and local bending stress. Membrane (or bending stress) can be primary or secondary.
At the joint between head and shell, membrane stress is primary (local), bending stress is secondary.