Try to word your notes in the following format:
1)Command/Action (Drill, Clean, Mark, Install...)
2)Object
Examples:
Correct - 'MARK P/N AND REV LETTER WHERE SHOWN'
Incorrect - 'PART SHALL BE MARKED WITH REV LETTER...'
Correct - 'USE MINIMUM BEND RADII'
Incorrect - 'ALL BENDS SHALL BE MINIMUM BEND RADII'
This eliminates the 'shall, should, must, will' controversy entirely. In addition, it's best to try to put your notes in the sequence in which they are performed - start with material and end with marking or packaging.