You can do a "hand-FEM", i.e., Galerkin or Ritz method with a suitable trial function. Finding a suitable trial deflection function is not necessarily trivial, though. A deflection trial for simple supports along all edges with a point load in the middle should be easy enough to find with google, and then it's just a matter of modifying it a bit and plugging into the DE (Galerkin) or functional (Ritz).