PJW, Sorry I’m just now getting back to you, I wanted to be able to craft a concise and helpful email. Great to hear you’re starting the program. Taking one course at a time is definitely the long haul, but is fairly reasonable to make grad school happen while working full time. I have spent several years of my grad program married with a kid and working as well (not 55/60 hour weeks though!). As far as time, I’ve never really tracked this and it depends on each course, but I would say on average I spend say 3 hrs a week in lecture online, another 1-2 studying, and say 2-4 doing homework/projects/preparing for exams. That’s not to say that once in awhile I haven’t gotten behind in my lectures and spent only 1-2 hrs some week. Difficult classes have found me putting in up to 20 hrs a week at times to finish homework and absorb the material, this was not consistent even with the difficult courses though.
I took Masonry Design and found in to be an excellent course, it’s taught by the technical director of the St. Louis Masonry Society and co-lead by Dr. Myers (MS&T). A good fundamental course in Masonry Design (and actually taught with practice in mind, excellent.)
As far as specific courses and the need for advanced mathematics: I would say that many of the classes hint at calculus, but it’s rarely if ever required for HW/Exams. Courses in Finite Element Analysis (Civ or ME), Structural Dynamics (Civ), Advanced Mechanics of Materials (ME), and Structural Stability (ME) will probably all require some level of Diff EQ. Since the courses aren’t always offered, even years in between, I haven’t and won’t take the first two mentioned above, I just did the third, and not the fourth. To date I have taken, Computer Methods of Structural Analysis, Adv. Concrete Design, Min. Loads on Bldgs., Adv. Lightweight Steel Design, Construction Methods, Incan Geotechnical Construction Practices, Adv. Mechanics of Materials, Project Management, and then have one more. For more specific info, I’d be more than happy to fill you in. A phone call would probably be best.
Good luck PJW, Rolla is a great school, Dr. Myers will be able to help you with any questions about navigating the structural classes, and what’s typically offered.