I believe THWN can be solid or stranded, but still not considered flexible in the same sense as SJ, i.e 14ga. THWN has 7 strands vs SJ having 41.
The main difference is that THWN (THHN) is individual conductors that must be used in an approved raceway, i.e. conduit, whereas SJOW is mulit-conductor cord that is intended to be used for connection of temporary or portable equipment, stand-alone in free air or laying on the ground (it is nearly impossible to pull S-type cord of any sort through a conduit anyway. I know, I've tried!). Be careful though, most codes will not allow "portable cord" like SJOW to be used for permanent installations without protection from physical damage, in which case you may as well go with the THWN.
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