Mike,
I feel your best bet will be to change your View Preferences default settings like John Baker pointed out earlier. Those settings should control the majority of the model edge displays on your drawings.
The Hidden Lines tab sets the preferences for lines that are hidden.
Visible Lines tab sets the preferences for all visible edges that are not concealed (or Hidden) by other geometry. I believe you will want this set to either Normal or Thick....probably Thick just to make sure you can see a difference without having to zoom in like on your PDF that was attached in a previous post.
Smooth Edge tab sets the preferences for smooth edges, or what I like to refer to as tangent edges. I believe you may wish to set these to Thin, and maybe even add a different line font like Phantom. This might give a person viewing your drawing a sense of a softer transition between surfaces than a Solid line font.
These 3 settings should take care of the majority of what you're wanting, however there will still be instances where you have no choice but to rely on View Dependent Edit. Most of this can be controlled by making sure all tangent edges are in fact tangent. The reason for this is because if you set your Smooth Edge display to a Thin line weight, and the edges aren't tangent, then they will revert to Visible Edge settings and display with a Normal or Thick line weight (depending on how you've got that set).
I would recommend setting up your Customer Defaults to whatever it is that is required so you don't have to do this every time you create a new drawing.
Tim Flater
Senior Designer
Enkei America, Inc.
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