Xianglu
Regarding your list of demands, for item 7), I would definitely use ASME Section VIII, Div 1 as a design basis for this cylinder (especially at 260 psig pressure).
Once you have established the design basis under ASME B&PV code, Section VIII, Div 1, you have a range of ferrous and non-ferrous alloys to choose from to achieve the rest of your demands using a maximum design temperature of 800 deg F.
For your stated service conditions, a Cr-Mo alloy (Grade 22), in addition to the austenitic and Ni-base alloys are suitable for hydrogen service at this pressure and temperature. So, you have a wide selection of alloys. For item 1) you can increase wall thickness to increase stiffness of the cylinder.
For item 2), I am not sure what you mean by high hardness to resist wear - is this a gas medium or liquid medium in this cylinder? What is the wear phenomenon?