Thanks for the anecdotal information, but I still don't know if this is an issue for copper in demin water, or for copper with water generally. I've got copper piping in potable water service in my house that's at least 50 years old, so copper clearly can last a very long time in water service. It's treated Great Lakes water, so there's relatively low alkalinity relative to groundwater. The carbonate problem is documented in Corrosion (Denny Jones, Prentice-Hall), but no mention is made of the problems with demin water etc.
Though I'd never use copper for demin process feed water, I still don't know if I should be concerned about spec'ing copper for BFW, condensate handling or trace service, or not- clearly, you can get away with it sometimes and not others. Copper corrosion has got to be worth megabucks- surely this has been studied on more than just an anecdotal basis?