You need to calculate the diaphragm midspan deflection using the SDI formulae combining shear and flexural deflections. The metal deck diaphragm stiffness is a function of the deck profile, the deck gage, the deck span, the deck attachment to supporting members and the deck sidelaps.
If the diaphragm deflects 200% of the average story drift (i.e. deflection of the vertical lateral system) then it is a "flexible" diaphragm per the IBC. If not, then it's "rigid" diaphragm.
Most metal deck diaphragms deflect very little and are thus "rigid" in my experience.