Charlieroc,
The thread below discusses a little about what you're talking about. See if this shows up:
Thread261-37564
To make a long story short, in my testing I've found that the maximum density attained with ASTM 1557 is approximately equivalent to ASTM 4253 vibratory table test. Therefore, if you want 95% of the 1557, I would go with 95% of the 4253. Caveat: My testing generally included SA-SR fine to medium sandy soil with little silt content (<3% by mass) a small amount of coarse sand, and no substantial gravel content.
I've seen similar testing results that show the same thing as CarlB describes, hence my caveat noted above. Gradation and particle shape make very big differences in what type of compaction test will yield higher values-ASTM 4253 vs. ASTM 1557, for example. Also refer to ASTM STP 529(?). If I find that number is incorrect, I'll let you know the correct STP #.
In terms of testing, I agree with dmoler that you'll have trouble with a nuke gauge. I agree with BigH that SPT is not the way to go too. BigH also alluded to a "means and methods" specification for compaction, which could be valid for part of the testing program. If you need some additional quantitative results of the compaction, a larger scale "lined pit" test as BigH offered, is probably a good way to go if you need to use this particular gradation as engineered fill.