mikem395:
I have a BSMET. I am also a PE. BSME or BMSET, respect comes with PE. However, in my 22 year career, I have run across one major food company that did not recognize the BSMET, but they would accept the BSMET with the PE.
Do I regret not going for BSME? Only because of the perceived value others put on it. I am satisfied in my career. I've been employed by a major pharmaceutical firm and managed teams of designers/engineers on varied large capital projects. I have found a great deal of satisfaction on the construction side, where I have more significant impact.
I did all my schooling at night. Passed the PE in one sitting. Now, I am getting the urge to go back and obtain an MS. Continued education is for my own satisfaction, not because I think it may draw more salary.
I was able to land some very good jobs before my degree because I had one qualification that was fairly rare. I was well trained in 3D modeling. Point is, in addition to the degree, work on (and sell) one particular qualification that is useful in the industry. I would imagine your military background will do well for you.
In the end, it's the passion you bring to the job; it's the personality and motivation you bring to the team; it's your ability to take a lackluster position and manage it so that it makes you want to come to work everyday. Don't wait or depend on others to do it for you.
Pace yourself. Take a break only if you absolutely have to, but never stop. Close out your education with the PE. Don't let your employer imply to you that they have no use for the PE - do it for yourself - for closure. When you finally finish, you will probably hunger for more learning; hence, my handle.
Good luck.