On #4, be sure you calculate and use the "permanent pressure loss" of the orifice. A lot of references give flow coefficients for the differential pressure from 1 pipe diameter upstream to 1/2 pipe diameter downstream of the orifice, which is useful when sizing an orifice meter, but it's not the end result you need when sizing a restriction orifice. My Perry's 6th Ed. speaks to this on page 5-16.
Good luck,
Latexman