According to DLite30, you can just pour the water onto a flat plate and it will drain into your final tank. Couldn't imagine that working too well. The same thing is going on with the drain in your bathroom sink, but you still have a basin to collect water in.
Yes there will be all kinds of vortices and the flow will not be fully wetted flow, but that indicates that you would get LESS flow through the pipe than assuming fully wetted flow without all these weird fluid effects. The last thing you want to do is design this and have water spilling over the edge - you'll look like a dumbass. I calculated the head required to push that much water through the 14" pipe and it's roughly 4". So double that number as a guesstimate of how the vortices, unknowns, etc. will affect your flow and you get 8". That's not all that high; so you'll want to now look at your fluid stream into the draining tank. Does this fluid come in a way that will cause a lot of sloshing? If so then you need to consider that. If not than 8" to 12" is probably fine.