This really doesn’t seem like an unreasonable request from a rigging contractor, and the spreader beams are a common lifting means to force only a vertical pick (with no lateral force component) on a tower at a specific tower diameter, equal to the length of the spreader bar. I wonder if you haven’t slightly misunderstood the contractor’s comment about his sling length, because at the angles and spreader bar lengths that your sketches show, you won’t be changing the height of the main hook much, whatever the straight sling length is. The questions is, does he have enough max. boom tip height, for the sling length and tower height, and the spreader doesn’t change that much.
If lifting equip. testing is required isn’t it the responsibility of the rigger to have his equipment certified to whatever code you are working under? The idea that you might be sued by the Chinese gov’mt. if something goes wrong should be discussed with your own company. That should have been their concern when they took the job, and of course, they should employ competent engineering to manage this project, thus you should be safe in your engineering and means of work. It seems to me that you really have most of the info. you need to do the engineering required to approve or reject these spreader bars, and the rigger should provide any other info. needed to get his equip. approved. In fact he should provide calcs., etc. to prove his design. The round pipe sections (325 x 24) as the spreader bar should not be a problem, but the end fittings could be improved. The welding and bearing stresses in the end fittings should be checked.
Are these spreader beams already made, or are they to be made to the sketches you provided? For what they want to do, I would redetail the end fittings as follows: 1.) vertical end plate saddles with thickness a little larger than the sling dia., shaped to allow the sling to angle up to the main hook in side view, and shaped through its thickness (in plan view) essentially to match the inside of the U-bolt of a wire rope clip (a Crosby clip), and two side plates to retain the sling in the saddle. 2.) The spreader pipe should be slit vertically (vert. saddle pl. thickness +) to receive this saddle plate, and long enough for sufficient weld to transfer the spreader compression loading. 3.) Then, on the center line of the pipe I would weld two threaded rods to the vertical saddle plate, one each side, to mate with the saddle half of an appropriate sized wire rope clip, thus being able to clamp the sling to the spearer beam without harming the sling.