techzone,
You come here for advice. And you have certainly come to the right place. We have given you advice. And you do not accept what we give you. Where do we go from here?
Your observation that you still see a lot of them (relays, that is) around is correct. But that does not mean that the PLC training - especially the ladder diagram training - is useless. You will not be able to pick up anything but the crudest AND, OR, LATCH and NOT functions from fumbling around with relays and wires. And that is so elementary that we can cover it here:
A relay (or a contactor) is a device that is controlled by a winding around a magnetic core. If the winding is connected to a voltage that is of the right type (AC or DC) and the correct magnitude (the pull in voltage), the core is magnetised and pulls in an armature that actuates a set of contacts.
The contacts may be normally open (NO) or normally closed (NC). An NO is open when coil not energised and closes (lets current through) when coil is energised. The NC does the opposite.
Connecting a voltage source and a contact and a lamp (or another relay coil, or a motor, or any load) makes a simple control circuit. Apply voltage to coil - lamp lights up.
If you use an NC contact, the operation will be the opposite; lamp lights when coil not energised and goes out when voltage applied to coil. Of course, when coil voltage is removed, the coil drops out and contacts go back to their initial state. Not much to it. Is it?
Well, yes. To high a coil voltage will start a fire. So will DC applied to an AC coil. But that is trivial, I would say.
Connecting two contacts (say contact K and L) in series means that both contacts have to be closed before any current can flow. The need is that K AND L are closed to have a complete circuit. Series connection = AND function.
Connecting in parallel (K and L again) means that either K OR L needs to be closed to have a circuit. Parallel connection = OR function.
Using an NC contact means that you already have a closed circuit as long as you do NOT activate the coil. An NC contact = NOT function.
There are two basic ways of controlling a circuit; Push-button and Switch. We already covered the Switch method above. Switch closed = relay pulls in. Switch open = relay drops out.
The other method is very common. A button is pushed to start something (i.e. pull in a relay) and another one is pushed to stop it.
We need to do something so that the relay "remembers" that we pushed that Start button. A very easy way is to connect an NO contact on the relay in parallel to the Start button. Press the Start, relay pulls in, closes NO contact and creates a parallel path. Let go the Start button - relay contact serves as a parallel path and keeps relay energised. It will stay so until supply voltage goes out. This is called a LATCHING circuit.
To stop same circuit? Just wire a Stop button with an NC contact in series with the coil. Press Stop to interrupt current to coil. Relay drops out and opens NO contact parallel to Start button.
This is about all you will learn from using relays and hard-wire them. Everything after this is refinements and application specific knowledge. Nothing that you couldn't learn much quicker by using a little PLC with simulation capabilities.
Of course, there are subtleties like special contacts (close-before-break, impulse contacts and so on) and special relays with several windings for different purposes or delay arrangements using capacitors or diodes or even pneumatic devices, but that is something that you will pick up once you need it. It is not something that you are likely to learn from a basic relay learning kit. Actually, I can't remember ever having seen such a thing (my memories go back to late 1950) and the reason is probably that it all is so self-evident that it needs no training kit. A few mistakes on the job and you have learned what you need to know - AKA "job training" or "learn by doing".
Good luck. I hope that I have been very clear.
Gunnar Englund