Hello,
I know it is late since 2003, but for those who ended up here recently by a search engine or by browsing the messages: by coincidence I am also trying to use the same IC for an oscillator, coincidentally also for 32.768 Khz. I am having success on a breadboard(with an smd to dil adapter) with only an input capacitor of 47pF. Also with a 10M and 330k resistor. before I used a 2k2 instead of the 330k and got no oscillation at all. Now with the 330k as in this article I do get oscillation. One note, at power on, it takes about 2 seconds for the oscillator to achieve full amplitude. For my design this is acceptable. It seems reasonably stable as long as I don't touch the components. Granted, yes, a 40106 for example is more suitable for this frequency, however I alreade implemented a 74LVC04 for my design because the other gates need to be fast. In this way, I can save an IC in the design. Finally, when I include the capacitor on the right, the signal is less smooth so I left it out.