Unlike peak storage for event storms, sizing tanks for greywater reuse typically involves doing some sort of water balance analysis.
So you're less interested in what happens to the "10 year storm" going into the tanks or whatever, and you're more focused on making sure the amount of water you accumulate in your tanks during the wet season carries over to match your demand in the dry season. Most times I've done it, I've used monthly rainfall averages, or if available I've used higher percentage confidence interval rainfall numbers.
So, for instance, say your owner wants to make sure that his tanks only go dry once every ten years on average. Then you go and drum up some numbers on what the 10% driest month is (if that makes sense) and you use those numbers in your water balance analysis.
Then the water balance analysis for your system will be something like this:
assumed rainfall in a given month produces
calculated runoff in a given month plus
carryover from previous month equals
total available that month, minus
whatever you use that month (irrigation demand varies, toilets typically don't) equals
carryover to the next month
Then you size your system so it can adequately carry over the stuff from the wet months to the dry months.
Then your client tells you that's too big, and actually we're just going to install whatever we can afford, regardless of whether it'll work or not, so you shrug and move on.
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