Late to join the party. I'm a big fan of one-point proctors. I'm not a big fan of the "Ohio" family of curves, however. A small change in grain size can have quite an affect on maximum dry density. As such, if you are really striving for meaningful compaction control it would be perfectly reasonable to take a bulk sample on some periodic basis (every test!!!) and confirm that the sample falls on the laboratory Proctor. IMPORTANT NOTE: This can only be acheived when the one-point is performed dry of optimum.
I have no comment on the other aspects of the specification. For example, I would never specify that the nuke gauge be used at one depth or another. After all, there may be some field justification to vary the penetration depth based on field conditions.
I'm a big fan of proofrolling to evaluate the subgrade to receive fill, but I'm not a fan of proofrolling to demonstrate suitable compaction. Too many soils exhibit favorable dry strength (i.e., pass proofrolling), but when they get wet turn to mud (yeah, that's a technical term). Do your density test, get on the right Proctor and make your conclusion.
For the test that were taken, have you looked at the plots of dry density v. compaction moisture content? I find much information can be gleened by such a plot for each referenced proctor value. I like to do this on a spreadsheet.
Reading your posts, I can sense your frustration. That said, compaction testing is never an exact science as Mother nature never gives us a uniform borrow source (i.e., moisture variation, grain size variation and the like).
Hope this helps. I can tell you have received alot of good information already.
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