In my opinion, the issue is going to be dealing with the bucket being rammed into the concrete. In thinking about that, how is that any different from a jackhammer in slow-motion? Isn't that exactly what you would do to demolish this wall after you're done with it? I don't think you need a force balance equation for it. The bucket is going to take it apart.
Look back in your physics book for impulse forces. As COEngineer says, determining "t" is where it gets tricky. In fact, it's pretty much impossible. The concept of the impulse force in physics is generally considered to be something that is unknown where "I" = the area under the curve of a function on an acceleration vs. time plot. The problem is that without close scrutiny of moduli of elasticity of everything in the system (loader bucket, linkage, cylinders, pins as well as the concrete, the rebar, cushion sand and everything else), you don't know if the area under the curve looks like the capital building or the Washington Monument.
However, you did ask how to determine the force from the tire. So, how do we solve it?
If you absolutely HAVE TO KNOW how much acceleration you're going to get, weight the front end of the loader on your scale. Then raise the front end and measure how high you have to lift it to get the front wheels off of the ground. Now you know force and deflection on the spring of the system (the tires) from force and deflection, you use that as your K in the system. Then, the energy as determined by velocity and total mass is applied to the spring in an energy balance equation, you can determine the maximum force required to deflect the spring (tires) enough to equal the energy of the moving loader.
But I wouldn't bother with all of that.
My (non-civil-engineering-background) opinion would be to look at what everyone else does in similar situations. Off the top of my head, I can think of a couple of different scenarios where enormous loads are slammed into concrete structures:
1) Truck loading docks
2) Harbors
On the loading docks, they put rubber bumpers on the dock and back the (80,000+ lb) truck into it. In a shipping port, they use wood piles to accomplish the same effect on a larger scale.
So, with that in mind, you might put a row or two of wooden rail ties offset from the wall about 6 - 8 inches to allow some springiness and put some rubber bumpers at the point of connection to the wall so that in the non-cushioned points, you still have protection.
And there's my two cents.
-T
Engineering is not the science behind building things. It is the science behind not building things.