I think the best advices are already given in the above posts..
If the load is small enough and no large motors its simple arithmetic to add the loads, this assumes you will be able to even out the load each of the three phases of a 3-phase generator or a single phase 3-wire unit, plus allow for some imbalanceand growth.
However if you do not understand the single phase loads and three phase generator relationship or a single phase 3-wire system, you are better off getting help of a electrical engineer friend.
For whatever it is worth look up, my faq237-766 if majority of the load is motors.