I would say you have more than one immediate issue, but they may be able to be traced to an overlying main problem.
When you say the OL heaters are tripping, do you know what the motor current is doing
at the time they trip? It's highly unlikely that if your motor is truly drawing only 56A and the heater elements are rated for 65A, that they are falsely tripping. More likely when you are reading 56A everything is A-OK, but when you are not watching, your motor is getting something like a voltage change that is increasing the motor current, or a pressure relief valve on your receiver is not opening when it should. Only a load increase or a severe change in voltage, which causes an increase in current (over and under voltage will both do this), will cause OL heaters to trip. Some OL relays will also trip on current imbalance, but not the one you are describing.
Buzzing of a breaker is NEVER something to ignore! That was an irresponsible statement IMHO. Is it the 3 pole breaker that is feeding this motor starter that is buzzing, or is it a 1 pole small breaker that feeds the control power to the motor starter that is buzzing? Either way, pressing the Start button after the motor starter has already engaged should not cause ANY change in the circuit. Something is definitely wrong there.
Melting the center pole of a 3 pole circuit breaker twice in 25 years would be unusual; twice in 18 months is a HUGE problem. Either you have loose wire or busbar connections, under sized conductors, a severely imbalanced system, a bad winding in the motor, a high impedance ground fault, or any combination of the above (or something else!). No matter what, that is something that MUST be attended to! If you replaced the breaker after it happened the first time, you should have had a detailed investigation after the second failure. That is highly unusual and suspicious.
Were it my system, I would start with getting to the bottom of the melting breaker pole, that is likely a harbinger of whatever is giving you problems elsewhere. An infra-red thermal scan under load would be a great starting point. If that isn't part of your normal maintenance routine, hire a switchgear service company to come out and do that to start with.
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