Regarding deck collapses....There have been several more than the one in Chicago.
The problem, generally, has not been the member sizes (floor joists etc) but rather the connections between the legder and the main house and lateral stabilirty of the columns.
Generally, contractors will only nail the ledeger board to the main house rim. This is INADEQAUTE. The nails corrode, "loosen up", begin to pull-out etc. The ledger board must be bolted to the rim board with, preferably hot-dipped galvanized, thru-bolts or lag bolts (or lag screws if you prefer that nomenclature). Many local building departments realizing the problems have required contractor have decks "engineered" depending on the size. Many are also requiring the ledger be bolted if not requiring the deck "engineered".
Several years ago (maybe 5-6 years), a magazine (I think it was This Old House) published an artilcle on this topic and had several details in the article. I no longer have the article, but I used those details and incorporated them into my practice with some modifications.