How to resolve issue with boss? 22

[MechOEngg]

Hello everyone.

After completing one year in my company i am end up with perplexed and bothering situation. So this situation has 2 bosses so let me address them with New Boss and Old Boss. Brief Introduction:

Old Boss had two departments, Department1 and Department2. My department (Department1) was given to New Boss because of change in organisation structure. And at same time Old Boss wanted me to shift to Department2 but i refused and expressed my willingness to work in Department1.
Situation:

With old boss:
I feel my old boss is angry with me because of this as his attitude changed towards me(responding coldly while greeting morning, avoiding talks with me). Most disturbing was not wising me birthday in front of others, wishing when i was alone that too in afternoon, despite that we sit in same room.

With new Boss:
Initially everything was normal but from 15-20 days i am feeling something is not good.
Presently i am not loaded with much work so me and boss interact very rarely and i am new to PM and still learning procedures so i ask him questions or confirm data in mails before sending.

let me tell some situations:

1) I called my boss and he did not pick neither called me back, It is strange because either he pick or call back in such cases.It happened twice.I asked him to give some work to me as i was free, he said i am busy & asked me to came after half an hour, i came after half an hour and he said he will call me on his own but he did not call. This also happened twice.
2) I went to him to ask something in afternoon and he said; Ahh u came to office?? (We sit in same room so not possible he did not see me) This has happened for three days in row. On third day i joked him saying, Sir i will change my seat and put it in front of yours so that you can see me..
3) Worst one: He did not wished me bithday,(May be he did not see me again) .


i do not understand why is this happening. And i am really bothered with this. what should i do??I was thinking to tell my bosses what i am feeling. Please advice me is this good idea to tell them?.

Now let me tell you something about me.I am suffering from social anxiety.I have low esteem, fear, jealousy bad interpersonal skills etc.I know this from 3 years and now situation has improved but still alot needs to be done. It really haunts as i have lost my previous job because of this. and i do not want to lose this. Please help.

 

[eng2407]

Where are you from? From your post it sounds like English isnt your first language.... if you have recently moved to another country maybe part of the problem could be cultural differences? I've worked in a few countries and found that sometimes people can come across as being rude or ignorant when they are not meaning to be.