I've only used LRFD a few times and am a proud owner of the "black book". For the most part, everyone I know uses ASD and those of us that have used LRFD at all have noticed that the calculations are much more lengthy with LRFD than is the case with ASD. As I typed that last line, I could actually hear the groans of the LRFD people, followed by a "No, it's not."
One of the hangups is that most of us tend to think in terms of stress, not load. Just one example is bolts. Regardless of size, if you tell me that a bolt has a certain tensile stress, I know whether or not it will be ok. When you tell me that a 2 1/4" A615 GR 75 anchor rod has 190 kips of load, it doesn't click with me whether or not it is ok. It's much easier to remember the allowable stress for commonly used bolts that it is to remember the allowable load for every given size. It's not that big an issue to calculate it but that's more time. And as everyone would agree, more time means more money and I don't see our fees increasing.
It's interesting to note how even with my limited use of the LRFD methods, I've found that deflection controlled my beam designs...which led me to a heavier beam...which took me back to something similar, though still slightly smaller, in size that I would have picked through use of AISC 9th edition. Also interesting to note is all the talk about "bouncy floors".