Hmmm (sounds almost like some kind of "drip pot" like arrangement). While tapered pipe threads are definitely differnt than bolts, I think about a thousand years ago I know the Crane Company (and probably others) published a table of "Normal Engagement Between Male and Female Threads to Make Tight Joints". However, for probably obvious reasons it was provided with several caveats. I believe the normal engagement shown for 3/4" and 1" at least American Standard and API Line Pipe threads at the time was 9/16" and 11/16", respectively. Among the caveats were that type of piping material, fits, and actual cut or rolled thread conditions could affect this, as well as amount of wrenching effort required to obtain same (drawing attention particularly to threaded materials softer than steel).
I guess when you get into some types of stainless steel there might even be other caveats (such as galling, with and without "anti-seize etc.), and with anything cross-threaded all bets are off! Putting all this together in the modern world there may well be reluctance to publish this sort of info due to the many variables and liability concerns etc. (maybe why you are having trouble finding such?); however, I would think you could probably find some info at least helpful to your understanding by web-searching e.g. with "threaded pipe joints" or "normal thread engagement" etc. keywords.