Classic Architect "stuff"...
Biggest issue to have the Architect think about is emergency vehicle access, which should be a much bigger concern than moving van access. In my area (big-time snow), emergency vehicles generally do not attempt to access any homes via a driveway grade over 10%. Depending on the length of the driveway and the weather conditions, this could significantly increase the response time of a paramedic or fire department, and this increase in time could be the difference between life or death.
Tell the Architect this and he may/should be more willing to spend the time/money necessary to lessen this grade.
If you have any involvement in this design, I would highly recommend that you limit your liability, or just have him find another engineer.