"wear testing" and "testing for suitability" may well be two different things, as the example that drwebb mentions shows. what you want from a engine lubricant is that it keeps your engine in such a condition that it can fulfill it's task, preferably for a long time. "wear" in itself is no problem, when the wear results in less then optimal operation it may become so.
a EP additive is a typical example: it will give more wear (in terms of loss of material) when used in a truck axle then would be possible with a lesser "agressive" additive. at the same time the wear is rather even, and thus the mating surfaces stay in working order with a smooth mating surface. when using another type of additive it would well be possible to reduce the wear to a much lesser figure, but because the load carrying properties would also be much worse, the gears would rapidly seize - so the actual life expectancy for the gear set would be uneconomically short.
in a valve actuating mechanism you want decent wear protection in terms of material loss, whereas the loads will be quite different from the loads on gears. thus, "agressive" additives would not be a advantage - the mechanism would develop quite a lot of wear, loosing it's hardened surface in a relatively short time - and thus in relatively short time the valve opening sequence parameters would be off....
a better score in a test thus not necessarily being better suited for the actual task in service.
when a machine is designed, the developer also chooses the amount of wear he/she sees fit - through the choice of materials, the shape of the components, the way they are manufactured, and also the type of lubricant to be used. those chosen parameters result in a technically and economically suitable life expectancy. that life expectancy usually has a fixed length (in hrs, miles, fuel used or whatever) - a little more would cost a lot more, less would not be economically acceptable. of course the design life of a bridge, a printing press, a car or a household mixer will differ - but all are the result of a careful process seeking the right balance between cost, live expectancy and economical acceptability.
even if it would be possible to increase the life span by the use of another type of lubricant, there remains the question who would actually want that. suppose you could double or treble the life expectancy of a car that way - what would mean you could drive it 2 or 3 times longer. some people might be willing to do that, most would swap the car for a newer model as soon as newer technological developments become available however.