mirok, I am just a little confused about your statements.
Sure, the fundemental mode in coax is the TEM, but just as well is that in microstrip, compensated for the effective dielectric constant. Now push the frequency up. Coax is no longer necessarily TEM, but may be TE or TM, but taken to the limit, would be TEM like. Not your stuborn mircostrip. It to, just like the coax will have diffusion, they call it quzi-tem. Fairly well modeled but generally lossy at this point and there for not really desirable. So we narrow the width, and thin the substrates. Since has been so extensively studied it is not really a problem. And Really would your intuition suggest that an evironment in which 1/2 or some proportion of the propogating EM fields travel slower than the rest demonstrate properties of a fully symmetric system?