Well first off I have personally had VERY poor experience doing cross current compensation with different type units, even with the "correct" burden resistors installed, depending on length of CT wiring, how you wire in shorting contacts, etc, you will find that even small differences will drive the VAR share apart. Without the right input burdens at each voltage regulator you will get erratic results, as everytime you bring a unit into the network it won't be at exactly the same voltage, so if it comes in a bit high it may hog the VAR's, if it comes in low, the other unit may hog the VAR's.
So a couple of specific questions,
Are the Cross current CT's proportionally the same? Without more specific info hard to be exact, but say the 1000kVA machines have a 1200:5 CCCT, ideally the 1400kVA machine would have a 1700:5 CT But since they don't make that size, which way would you go???).
Is the CCCT on the 1400kVA machine with the CDVR a 5 amp secondary? Some CAT generators ship with a droop CT that is not a 5 amp secondary.
Have you "dummied down" the dynamic settings in the CDVR? The default settings in a CDVR make them way more responsive than the SR4A. Where are the Stability pots on the SR4's set to (usually mid-scale).
Did you match the droop settings on all the units, ideally you would set all the voltage droops to zero, however in practise I find a little bit of droop improves stability?
What is the EasyGen voltage bias doing? Voltage matching for parallel? The EasyGen can be setup to trim voltage, is that feature active? You may want to monitor the voltage bias output and make sure it is not contributing to your problem.
Have you tried paralleling in droop? One of the most common problems in cross current compensation setups is one or more of the droop CT's wired backwards. The results of this are not always consistant, sometimes the VAR's will drift apart very slowly, other times the oncoming unit will either grab it all or dump it all.
I am assume you've looked at the Basler Tech Pub on Paralleling voltage regulators? I've attached a copy just in case.
Hope that helps, MikeL.