The 4-ball wear is a bench test designed to correllate with certain aspects of WHEEL BEARING and GEAR lubrication performance. If these are included in your sources "real world", they may not be entirely correct.
As noted by others, engine oil additive marketers notoriously misapply 4-ball results, which is a BIG stretch at best (fraudulent at worst). If engine oil is what your sources mean by "real world" then they're right.
Someone will correct me if I'm wrong but I don't recall a 4-ball in any of the current ILSAC or API engine oil specs, probably because it has little relevance in such cases. Admitedly, small marketers can't afford multiple $20,000 Sequence III engine tests, so $150 4-balls may be the best they can do. But for engine lubes it seems to correllate best with someone trying to get their hand in your wallet!
Food for thought- wear can be a counterpoint to fatigue. In a different bench test a gear showed extensive fatigue pitting when overtreated with antiwear additive. Now most of us assume more AW is good, but in this case it made the surface of the metal so hard and brittle that it started breaking off in little chunks. So completely eliminating one failure mode precipitated another. Just goes to show, more isn't always better, and formulation is all about balance while marketing is all about hype . . .