I don't know the scale of the building, but the exterior wall lines are so torn up compared to the "door" openings. It doesn't feel so big it needs separate wings and firewalls but I'm not the architect. If those are in the plan we can't see them and it's a big monkey wrench. If you're trying to design this one time and be done with it, I think your impulse to design steel braced or moment frames is on target. Drift limiter's suggestion seems on target for wood shear walls as an alternate.
As to flexible diaphragm, if you have wood floor sheathing, that's probably likely permissible, if not realistic, it should still function at ultimate, unless they put too much poured GypCrete on the floor (>1 1/2"? 2?" yeah, 1 1/2" 12.3.1.1 ASCE 7-16), then ASCE wants you to design the diaphragm as semi-rigid or model it or whatever their term is lately.