Hi,
as stated by FEM_BEM (sorry, i have call you FEA_BEM before), that 'quasi stiffness matrix' due to the displacement dependenci of the load increment, i think this is related to the so called 'follower force', i.e the force/load conforms with the deformation. So this effect is independent to the solving technique. Btw, i have the book from Argyris also, titeld The FE-Methode (in german) explained this phenomenon in the same manner.
regards