Hi TheInquisitor,
If you are only "a bit confused" then you're doing better than most. ISO 9000 has new definitions now for design verification vs. design validation:
Subclause 4.4.7, Design Verification, states that design verification must be carried out at appropriate stages of design and must ensure that "design stage output meets the design stage input requirements."
Subclause 4.4.8, Design Validation, is new and is in addition to "design verification." Design validation must ensure that the product conforms to defined user needs or requirements. This is in addition to design verification which must ensure that design stage output meets design stage input requirements. Design validation follows successful design verification and is normally performed on the final product.
The design stage output typically would be drawings, specifications, ie. paperwork. Does the paperwork invoke, enforce, or implement the original design input requirements? In otherwords (according to this old designer's brain) are the drawing details and calculations checked, maybe independently checked, and properly signed off and documented and archived? That would be design verifcation.
Design validation then would be testing or demonstration of the final product (hardware) to assure that it meets the originally intended performance, appearance, dimensions, reliability, etc.