JOHNDOE333,
You are mostly wrong. In a high speed recip piston engine, the piston/wrist pin/con rod/rod bearing loads are mostly a function of piston accelerations, not piston velocities.
Piston linear accelerations (and thus inertia loads) are a function of crank and conrod kinematics, which in turn are determined (primarily) by stroke length and rod length.
F1 engine cylinder dimensions are typically way over-square (ie. bore-to-stroke ratio > 2.0). While Cup car engines have bore-to-stroke ratios closer to square (ie. 1.2?) Both types of engines have rules that dictate displacement, no. of cylinders, bore center dimension, max. bore dimension, etc.
Rod-to-stroke ratios in an F1 engine are kept as low as possible to minimize reciprocating mass. But these short kinematic rod ratios also produce very high peak piston accelerations, even though the mean piston velocity may seem low in relation to a Cup car engine. The rules for Cup cars essentially dictate the stroke dimension and block deck height limits that may be used, so the rod lengths are set by those rules. I haven't checked the Cup rules lately, but I believe all of the crank, rod and valvetrain materials must be a "magnetic metal" (ie. steel), so titanium conrods are not legal for race engines.