I've used Wilden and Milton Roy quite a bit, though not in this service. I wouldn't put Wilden into high vapour pressure service, but the Milton Roy's might work. I have used hydraulic diaphragm pumps successfully in this kind of service, the last was a Pulsafeeder 7440 that was running close to minimum speed in order to minimize the NPIPR. It also ran continuously recycling back into the suction tank when not actually dumping to prevent vacuum-locking. Bear in mind if you're looking at a reciprocating positive displacement pump you'll need to carefully address acceleration head effects on the suction line losses. Oversize your suction piping, keep the pumps as close to the separator as possible, look at using a suction stabilizer, use full-port block valves, avoid suction strainers if you can, use duplex or triplexed liquid ends to minimize pulsation amplitudes, etc.
On the centrifugal end, I've also used Dickow Pumpen and Sihi and pumps in low NPSH, low flow service, they have models with NPSHR down as low as 0.5 meters, which is still more than you're looking at right now. The trick there is their designs normally work of very tight clearance, so they don't work well in a service with any kind of solid contaminants.