We have three sons and all three of them had jobs while in high school, and in all cases, their experience led to their careers today. We told them that we would pay for four years of college under certain conditions. We'd pay their tuition and they could live at home for free, but they had to pay their own personal expenses. In other words, no allowances. I went to school on scholarships and school loans. I got virtually nothing from my parents. My wife got even less from her parents and went to school and worked at the same time.
Anyway, our oldest went into the Army right out of high school and served four years before returning to work for the same company he was working for in high school. He's 51-years old now and still with them today, having risen to an executive level position.
Our second son, he took us up on our offer and attended Cal State Fullerton and got a Bachelors in Psychology. He lived at home for the first three years and he also worked in the evenings as a pastry chef. After graduating, he went to culinary school, which he paid for with a student loan (I cosigned but he never missed a payment). He's 51-years old and is a production manager at a large specialized bakery in L.A.
Our third son, who's 43, works for an IT company that helps corporations and organizations recover from being hacked or being hit with ransomware. He learned everything that he knows either on-the-job or taking specialized training classes and getting certified by companies like Apple, Microsoft, etc, most of these courses having been paid for by his employer at the time.
All three of them have their own homes, and in two cases, families of their own.
Perhaps my wife and I were lucky, but we worked very hard to instill the work ethic in our kids at an early age and it's paid off.
John R. Baker, P.E. (ret)
Irvine, CA
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