If you need the compare tool to suss out all the changes, your vendor needs to communicate better.
Usually we use the DFM CAD as a template. Import the neutral file into the original CAD so that you can match changes to the DFM model. Very helpful for adjusting faces to match exactly what vendor sent. Delete DFM when done.
Sometimes blend surface metadata include blend radius. Otherwise you can use curvature checking tool to get you close enough to recreate most fillets.
Figure out a reasonable limit as to what constitutes "close enough" for recreated blends. But usually you can get so close no one can tell.
Keep your DFM files neatly stored and organized. You won't regret it. Most PDM systems allow you to attach neutral files to a part's database folder.
Besides Compare Tool, you can also use body properties. First, ensure densities are same. Use body properties to check volume and also all the moment of inertia properties. Volume doesn't tell the whole story, but throw in moments and the comparison is nigh-infallible.