Also, is your governor set for droop or isochronous mode? If in droop the generator will not take load.
Got this mostly backwards.
Droop allows the set to track the inevitable small frequency changes of the grid.
Isochronous is only for the swing set.
Thanks for the added information.
The added information points to an issue with PF control.
PF control on the wrong setting or in the wrong mode may cause issues with reactive current.
There is always confusion between "ground" and "neutral" between line people and plant people.
For NEC installations, there are strict definitions for both ground and neutral.
Power line people use the same conductor for both ground and neutral.
Power line people tend to use the term "ground" for both ground and neutral conductors.
With grounded generator windings, and the absence of a neutral conductor, the grounding conductor will also act as a neutral conductor.
70 Amps of true ground current may be a sign of impending, rapid generator failure.
If you are a long way from the substation and if the distribution line has distributed single phase loads, or if there are one or more banks of voltage regulators on the distribution circuit then 70 Amps of neutral/ground current is often a sign of a) a voltage difference on one phase; b) a phase angle error on one phase; c) usually both.
This is something that you probably have to live with.
Normal load = 12 Amps = 10 Kw (12.5KVA ?)
Generator capacity 72 Amps = 60 KVA
Loading = 200 Amps = 166 KVA
CHECK YOUR POWER FACTOR CONTROL SETTINGS
Once you get your voltage/current under control the neutral/ground current should drop to under 5 Amps.
If the neutral/ground current doesn't drop significantly, watch for smoke.
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Ohm's law
Not just a good idea;
It's the LAW!