Vivk said:
"What I found though, was that most of the guys were already quite familiar with mechanical things, from working with their cars, workshop subject at high school etc. I felt that I had much to catch up on in that area."
-- I totally agree, and it's very unfortunate. I think this is the major downside of our culture where girls get pink dolls and boys get "construction" toys. On the flipside - how many of you men have felt uncomfortable "babying" your little ones(comforting, bathing etc)? Are men less capable of doing this? Absolutely not - they just have never done it before.
many said:
boys score better at math (and sciences) than girls
-- I think the opposite is often true, and pure science programs in many schools now have MORE women than men. Applied Sciences is lagging behind (majorly) and I think this hands on thing is the major reason. Young girls and women are not encouraged to become comfortable with hammers and drills etc. and thus feel more comfortable taking their skills to the pure sciences than to the applied sciences.
Lainey said:
"Im actually kinda glad there's not a lot of females in my class, because then it would take away from our uniqueness.

But i feel that having some females in engineering is important to add diversity in opinions and ideas.
I think someone compared this situation to males in nursing, but i think it is a bit different than that. Females in engineering are commended for being with the best(aka male engineers), where males in nursing get a different reaction.
It's similar to a female playing on the pga tour versus a male playing on the lpga. "
Although I completely disagree with a great deal of Lainey's post I'm glad she brought this to the table. I think a lot of women in engineering have felt a tinge of what she is saying - about liking all the attention etc. I think this is a VERY short sighted view because in the end it will come back and bite you probably in more ways than one.
To become a respected engineer you have to work hard and be dedicated. You have to play on the same field as the boys - if you don't they will surpass you. Although I'm not totally against this "biased scale" to help balance things out, it needs to be done very carefully and in ways that do not unfairly treat the "majority" (white male).
Now onto the nursing thing - as I said in a previous post I think the world needs to change in both ways with women having the chance to enter male dominated fields AND vice versa. I do not at all agree with comparing this with the LPGA because nursing is a very important career - not a less competitive league. Our society seems to demean everything that is traditionally female territory - from secretaries to nurses. It seems that being a forklift driver is more highly regarded than these traditionally female careers are.
In answer to Leanne's question that asked "Why should it cause a career interruption having kids? Other than the obvious time off for recovery" Because children are of the utmost importance, they deserve quality, and in the beginning lenghty, time with their parents (BOTH parents). Here in Canada we can take up to a full year of combined maternity and parental leave. Child rearing is another "female career" that gets a lot less recognition than it should.
... sorry to come down on you so hard Lainey! I do hope you understand that this tidal wave of "specialness" will not carry you very far in life.
Best regards,
samv